written by Melanie Naumann
You're not alone if you’re a songwriter who struggles with doubt in yourself or your craft.
Many songwriters struggle, wondering if their lyrics are good enough.
But here’s the thing— you are a writer, just like any other writer (whether that's books, screenplays, or songs). And no great author creates alone. They have an editor who helps them, offering guidance and feedback to make their writing stronger and to help them level up their craft and become a better writer in the process.
Songwriters and lyricists can have that support, too. You don’t have to face the pressure alone.
That’s what hit me while watching Netflix’s documentary Lewis Capaldi: How I'm Feeling Now.
It was full of emotional highs and lows, and showed how tough it can be to handle self-doubt—even for a star like Lewis Capaldi.
Lewis Capaldi is a singer from Scotland who became really famous in 2016 with his song "Bruises." That song went viral, getting millions of streams on Spotify, and his career took off from there.
He kept releasing more popular songs, like the emotional hit "Someone You Loved." That song was a huge success, hitting the top of the charts all over the world and winning awards.
Capaldi is known for his great voice and has won many awards for his music.
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But, as people say, "With great power comes great responsibility." After breaking records with his first album, Divinely Uninspired To A Hellish Extent, he had a big challenge ahead—making a second album that was just as good.
The documentary shows how tough it was for him. Capaldi struggled with mental health and had a hard time writing new songs. The music business put a lot of pressure on him.
He had already sold millions of copies of his first album, but people expected even more from him. It was a heavy weight to carry. He had two choices: give up or try again to make another great album.
Spoiler alert: he chose to keep going. But it was really hard.
Capaldi wrote more than 50 songs for his next album, but his manager didn’t think any of them were good enough. Imagine how tough that must have felt.
And again, if you are a writer and you don't have an editor by your said, of course you think that it's not just your art that is not good enough, but you start telling yourself that you are not good enough.
And you might not be ... yet.
But again, wouldn't it have been way easier if he had an editor by his side, who worked with him on his song lyrics, and then he could have gone confidently to his manager and said: 'Those songs are great, because of X, Y, and Z.'
He could make an argument because he would know the craft behind what makes a great song. And he would know that his songs had in them!
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Instead, anxiety stuck to him like a tight suit, and his whole body was shaky.
He started feeling like he couldn’t write good songs anymore—have you ever felt like that? But we all know he’s a great songwriter. His talent was just hidden under all that worry.
Watching him struggle, I wished I could be there to help.
You know that feeling when you watch a friend or family member go through something tough? You can see things clearly from the outside, but they’re too deep in it to see the big picture. That’s how it felt watching him.
He even said,
"I'm just not good at writing lyrics."
But we know he is! We’ve all heard his amazing songs.
But when you’re under huge pressure to write not just any album, but one with another big hit, things get really tough.
He’d been writing songs since he was young. Hits like "Bruises" and "Someone You Loved" came to him without any pressure. But now, with fame, everything changed.
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Lewis Capaldi - The Saga Begins
Imagine Lewis Capaldi at 11 years old, singing songs by Oasis and The Killers in crowded pubs around Edinburgh and Glasgow. He had only his guitar and his bold spirit, sneaking into bathrooms and bursting out to perform before anyone could stop him.
In 2016, he released his song Bruises all on his own. It took off, hitting 25 million plays on Spotify faster than anyone expected!
By 2018, he had signed with a major record label. His song Someone You Loved stayed at number one for seven weeks and sold over 4 million copies in the UK. Capaldi's hard work and unique voice earned him a special place in the music world.
But then, the clock was ticking for a new album. He faced a huge challenge: writing the lyrics, building the melody, creating the production, and constantly wondering—should the music or words come first?
Capaldi felt lost and didn’t know where to start. He decided to work on the music first, but the pressure to write powerful lyrics was overwhelming. He kept thinking, I have to write these lyrics. I have to make people feel something. But I can’t do it. I just can’t.
And I don’t want you to feel this way.
Imagine you’re in a place where you’d be thrilled with just a small part of Capaldi’s success. Even if you’re not aiming for fame, there will come a time when you’ll feel pressure to write something truly great.
If you, like Capaldi, want to write songs that touch people deeply, you need to understand the process. You have to know what it takes to create a song that can reach people’s hearts and bring them to tears.
It’s not just about writing song after song, hoping you’ll get better over time. Writing a lot without real guidance won’t make you a better songwriter. You need to practice with purpose and get feedback so you know exactly how to improve.
The best way to write songs that connect and mean something is to tell a story with your song.
The Power of Storytelling in Songwriting
For thousands of years, people have used stories to communicate, and storytelling is just as important in songwriting. Songs with strong stories can change lives, inspire people, and make a lasting impact on the world.
Take Bob Dylan’s song The Times They Are a-Changin’. It became a rallying cry for people fighting for equal rights in the 1960s. It inspired people to stand up for justice.
Or Bruce Springsteen’s song Born in the USA. It brought attention to the struggles of veterans coming home from the Vietnam War and showed the need for better support for people dealing with trauma.
Storytelling in songs doesn’t just help with big social issues. It can also help people on a personal level. Many people turn to music for comfort during tough times. Songs with real, personal stories about struggle and strength can give hope to others who are going through something similar.
For example, Kesha’s song Praying is about surviving abuse and finding strength. This song has helped many people who have gone through similar experiences to feel less alone and to find the courage to speak up.
Storytelling in songwriting is powerful. It can change lives and inspire people. When songwriters use storytelling, they can connect with listeners on a deep level and make a difference.
Lewis Capaldi had a tough time writing lyrics. He didn’t have a steady way to start. He wasn’t sure how to take his deep emotions and put them into words that people could understand.
But he knew it was possible—he’d done it before. Capaldi had been writing songs since he was 11, and by the time he was 22, he’d released his first album. Those 12 amazing songs were the result of years of work.
However, when it was time to write his second album, he didn’t have 11 years to perfect each song. He couldn’t test them out in small pubs like he used to. He had a tight schedule, and without regular feedback from an audience, the pressure felt huge.
Everyone was watching, waiting to see what he would come up with next.
The pressure grew, and his anxiety became overwhelming. He even had to take a break for his mental health. Capaldi wanted to meet expectations, but it felt impossible. At the same time, he didn’t want to give up—too many people counted on him.
Lyric writing doesn’t have to be a mystery or something you figure out all on your own. Think of it as a skill you can learn, improve, and build on with the right support.
Yes, it’s important to understand song structure, rhyme, melody, and rhythm. But here’s the truth—nobody listens to a song just for its perfect rhyme scheme.
So, what really matters in lyric writing?
It’s the art of writing lyrics.
The art of lyric writing is all about sharing your story in a way that connects with others. It’s about the content, the message, and the story you’re telling.
Imagine having someone who helps you turn those thoughts and feelings into lyrics that mean something to others, who guides you in building skills so you can make the most of every line.
That’s where feedback comes in—it’s how you learn to craft powerful lyrics, one step at a time.
Songwriting is about connecting human to human, sharing something meaningful.
Life is full of moments that others understand and feel too. Songs that make people cry or sing along are created by capturing these patterns in a way that feels real and relatable.
Emotional songwriting is storytelling. That’s why the best lyrics tell a story—they let people feel and understand what the songwriter feels.
When you focus on the story in your lyrics, you unleash your true potential as a songwriter. And with the right support and feedback, you don’t have to struggle alone. You can build a path to better songwriting, with each song showing growth and meaning.
What is Narrative Songwriting?
Narrative songwriting is a way for songwriters to truly connect with people through their music.
When you tell a story in your song, listeners feel something real and meaningful. This isn't only for genres like folk or country; anyone can use storytelling to create emotional lyrics that leave a lasting impact.
Storytelling isn’t just one part of writing lyrics; it’s the core of what makes lyrics powerful and memorable. When you weave a story into your song, it sticks with people long after they’ve heard it. With the right support, like feedback on your lyrics, you can strengthen your storytelling skills and make your songs unforgettable.
By using narrative songwriting, you can share your own feelings and ideas in a way that others can relate to. Whether your song is about something personal or fictional, a storyline adds structure and purpose.
Feedback can help you see which parts of your story are hitting the mark and which areas need improvement. Over time, this feedback process will help you grow as a songwriter and reach listeners on a deeper level.
When you learn the skills of storytelling in songwriting, you can create songs that inspire people, make them think, or even lift them up. This kind of storytelling has a huge impact, and by getting feedback, you’ll learn how to use this art to connect with people everywhere.
Building a Story in Your Song
Narrative songwriting isn’t always about telling a big, complex story. It could be as simple as describing a single moment, like a scene from a movie, or giving a snapshot of someone’s journey.
Listeners usually don’t connect to songs that are perfect and happy all the way through. Real life is full of ups and downs, and people want to feel that when they listen to a song.
With the right structure and feedback, you’ll learn how to bring those real, relatable moments into your lyrics. This process of improvement can make a huge difference, as you’ll always know what to work on to create that engaging inner dialogue.
Your Songwriting Journey
If your goal is to write a song that reaches people—whether it’s a hit or a deeply personal piece—then the story you tell in your lyrics matters. This is the heart of narrative songwriting, and it’s something you can learn and grow in.
With feedback and support, you’ll start to build the skills you need to write songs that really mean something.
So if you want to write powerful lyrics, the path forward is simple: learn the art of narrative songwriting, get feedback on your work, and keep improving.
The best way to improve is by getting feedback!
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